I love those friends who when everythinjg is ok act like they care about you and what’s going on in your life, but then the second you really need them to help you through some shit they are no where to be found. No text back and if they do its short annoyed answers. Its really fucking annoying because you’re there for these people. Oh well they’re just the takers in society and that’s all they’ll ever be. Nothing to contribute!!! Fuck it I’m out of here in a 4 weeks anyway!!! Soooo over this bs..
“Like most women, I currently live in a society where violence, harassment and scary shit can break out at any moment, just because I told some random asshole “no” without bothering to be nice about it. Doing that is so dangerous that most women don’t dare; after a few scary incidents, they learn to make up excuses, to smile, to be sweet and welcoming, to act as if every single random asshole on the street is a precious new friend that they would just LOVE to stand outside of the Chipotle and chat with FOR HOURS, if only cruel fate had not intervened. That’s what it’s actually like, being a woman: Playing nice with every random asshole, because this random asshole might be the one who hurts you. And then, if he hurts you anyway, they’ll tell you that you led him on.”—Tiger Beatdown (via pnasty)